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Length:
The longer a profile is and the more information you give about
yourself the more interested a man will be in you. Short profiles
that just say, "Hi my name is..." or "SWM, 5'7", 145#" don't tell
a man anything about your personality and aren't eye catching.
A man is more likely to just skim over a short profile and more
likly respond to someone who took the time to disscuss
themselves.
Content:
Give as detailed description (both physical and personality) as
possible. Include information such as height, weight, hair, eyes,
and anything that stands out about you (ex. moustache, beard,
tattoos). For personalities, try favorate types of music, hobbies,
occupation, or education. Add the personal touch. Make the
profile reflect your personality, add little bits of information that
describe you (ex. most people think I'm child trapped in a man's
body, those who can do, those who can't watch me do it).
Do's:
Pictures:
The better your appearance, the better your profile looks.
Smile in your pictures
Look happy and relaxed
Profile:
Add short stories about something interesting you did
Add anything personal that will help someone
understand you better
Dont's:
Don't write bland profiles, make your profile interesting to read.
If you can catch a man's eye in the first few sentences, he's
more likely to respond. Make your introduction line appealing.
Writing "Hi" is not going to get him to click on your profile. Try
somthing more flashy and interesting.